25 degrees outside.... PLUS wind chill..... she was barefoot.... WOW.
From the time we are small, Girls are impressed upon to decide on what they want as the MAN OF THEIR DREAMS… so we do, and the list goes a little like this:
Tall, Dark, Handsome, Money, Cars, In Shape, Prince Charming, etc . etc….
Therefore, we learn and teach generationally to narrow down the specs on ALL those things about a MAN that do not matter….. In addition, we get them; we find, create men who have money, have good bodies, money, houses, and in our marriages we feel lost… alone, distraught. We look at our men and wonder why we got what we got.
I am a sincere and passionate believer of asking for what you want out of life, of claiming, of focusing your dreams, but let us teach ourselves and our children to escape the world of physical imitation.
Instead of a “Dark” man, know that however dark his hair may be—it will or will not last. Do not put too much stock in it.
Instead of a “Handsome” man, choose a man that takes care of himself. That HONORS his body with health and wellness. That abstains from toxins and addictions. That sees the body as a house for the SOUL and knows the rarity and pricelessness in a SOUL.
“In Shape” is not as important as a man who values HEALTH in Mind, Body, and Spirit. Choose a man who nourishes all three.